Heighters Heath Nursery

Suggestions For Parents

ALL parents and partners can help their child become a better talker and in time a better reader. Here's how to start:

Time

To start with, try this for 15 minutes a time, at least 3 times per week, for 6 weeks.

Then you and we will see how much it has helped your child - and we can talk about where to go from there.

Other adults and older children at home can help as well, but they should help in the same way.

What To Read

Help your child learn how to choose books which interest them but are not too easy or too hard. Your child might be more interested in story or in information books.

We all meet new words in books which are hard. When you meet a hard word, do not pretend you know it if you are not sure - it's OK to say you don't know!

Parents who worry that their own reading is not very good can still help their child a lot. You just need to make sure your child does not bring home very hard books.

You can help your child learn to choose books from the Nursery library on xxx days, at xxx times.

You can also use books from the public library, home, or anywhere else if they seem suitable.

If your child gets fed up with a book, just change it - but help them to choose more carefully next time!

You can also borrow Story Sacks (which have other interesting material connected with books).

You can also borrow audio tapes of books (and a tape player if you do not have one), so you can both listen at home. You can also borrow "video books", so you can watch the video before or while reading the book. Both of these are good for harder books.

What To Do

General Points

Try to make a special time with your child - that might be difficult if you have other children who want to watch TV very loud! If this is very difficult at home, you are welcome to do this with your child in the nursery. Get close and comfy so you can both see the book easily.

There is no need to point at all words all the time. You might run your finger from left to right smoothly under the words as you read them, but only if this seems to help your child to concentrate.

Reading

Read - To and With your child (TW)

Read harder books To your child. Read easier books With your child. Both will help your child move in time towards learning to read Independently.

When Reading To, try to make it sound exciting. (If you have time, reading the book by yourself first will help you do this).

When Reading With, try to make your speed of reading as slow as your child's - so you are reading out loud exactly together.

If your child has favourite books and likes to read the same book again, you will find that every time you repeat the book the child is more able to move a bit more from reading To on to reading With.

When you are reading With, sometimes your child will say words just a bit before you. This shows they are beginning to become more confident. Next time you meet that word, you might say it only very quietly. Then next time, you might not say it out loud at all. But make sure that your child is looking at the word, and is not just remembering the whole story by heart from listening to it.

When your child reading With you says a word wrong, you should just say the word again correctly for them.

Also try to help your child see words all around them in everyday life - in shops, on buses, in newspapers, etc. They can collect these (write them on a scrap of paper, even if you are not sure what they mean or the exact spelling) and bring them to school for a display board. You can do this with numbers as well.

Talking

Talk - Before, During and After reading (BDA)

Show interest in the book your child has chosen (even if it's not your cup of tea…)

Pause at natural breaks in the reading to talk (such as the end of paragraphs or when you turn over the page).

Help your child to pay close attention to pictures and get extra information from them. You can read a story just from the pictures by making up the words.

Help your child to understand words about books: author, title, story (fiction), information (fact), contents, and so on.

Talking To your child is good, but also see what questions your child has about:

  1. pictures,
  2. meaning,
  3. sequence of events

Listen to what your child has to say.

Talking gives your child more information and explores if they have understood.

Some questions invite a short answer. Raise questions which encourage your child to say more about what they think. See the Questions Prompt Sheet at the end of this leaflet.

Encouragement and Praise

Encourage your child by making clear that you think they can do well, and that you will help them when they need it. (But don't help them when they don't really need it - don't do everything for them.

When they do well, tell them so! Praise for:

Make sure you sound as if you mean it - even when you are tired!

Try to use different words. The nursery has a Dictionary of Praise for you if you want one, which gives you lots of different words to use. Also, we ask your child and you to collect Praise Words to bring to the nursery for our Praise Board.

Home-School Diary

You will have a diary sheet for each week.

Please make a note on the days when you spend some time reading with your child.

In the diary, let us know what good things you felt - about your child's response, or the book, or both.

If you have a difficulty of any kind you would like to talk about, please speak to one of the nursery staff.

Your child should bring the diary to school on a XXXday and show it to Ms. XXX, who will add their comment and give them a new diary sheet for the next week.

This is to keep home and school in touch and give your child a double dose of praise - from both home and school. You can use the Dictionary of Praise with the diary.

Further On

These notes are available on request.

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